The Disney World Do-Over: Tips for Planning a Better Vacation

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Updated for 2016!

If you’ve ever planned a Disney World vacation, you know choices and decisions can be daunting. A big fear many people have is trying something new; sometimes it is really, really tough to get out of your WDW comfort zone. High expectations combined with the knowledge of how much money it will cost to get to Orlando can lead many people not to make decisions or make decisions they later regret. Good thing for Disney park veteran travelers, it’s easy to look back and decide what you should or shouldn’t have done on a previous trip.

At Cheapskate Princess, we have a wide variety of been-theres and done-thats to call upon their years of experience.

We asked our Cheapskate Princess Facebook Fans to tell us what they would do over again on a memorable vacation. I call it the “Disney Do-Over,” as in, what would you change about a prior vacation if you had known then. Because that wisdom can help some of us now

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Christie, “Having reservations at Tony’s Town Square. I definitely would have skipped that one. It was one of the worst meals I’ve ever had anywhere.”

Disney World has literally hundreds of restaurants, some with a better reputation than others. Before you make your Advanced Dining Reservations (ADRs), or show up on the spur of the moment hoping to get a table, do some research and check into restaurants you would like to try.

It’s a good idea to read the menu items before you do any planning. I wanted to eat at Epcot’s San Angel Inn for years, but when we looked over the menu, we decided the food options were not what our family would enjoy. Here is an article with a WDW link to menus and instructions on how to access restaurant reviews on trip advisor.

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Staying off property at Disney World

Alexandra, “I had two things on our last trip. #1) Staying off property was a hidden money trap and time-wasting mistake. #2 We did not stay long enough. I fixed that this year; we’re staying at the Art of Animation Resort for 2 weeks!”

There are two definite schools of thought toward staying on vs. staying off property accommodations. Driving around the Disney property can take 20-30 minutes depending on your destination, so traveling in from off-property can take 30 minutes to an hour, depending on traffic. Many people have to pay to park at the theme parks, which ups your costs even more. And yet staying on property can be rather expensive. Choosing where to stay can be one of your greatest decisions when you plan your vacation.

Our family has stayed off property several times, which saved money and allowed us to bring our two dogs, but the driving gets to be exhausting.

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Don't spend too much on Disney accommodations

Tonia, “My first trip, we stayed at Animal Kingdom Lodge, club level. Like I said it was my first trip. We had NO TIME to enjoy the resort or the amenities it offered!”

Visiting theme parks will take up a lot of time on your average Disney vacation, after all, that’s what most people travel to Orlando for, to enjoy the rides and shows. But if you plan to spend most of your time in the parks, splurging on pricey accommodations may not be the best use of your money. Club Level accommodations might be better saved for several days when you plan to relax at the resorts.

We have an entire list of things to keep you occupied at the resorts without ever needing tickets.

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Rebecca,  “MNSSHP. My kids were too young to really appreciate it; the parade was great, but my daughter would have enjoyed doing the Kidspot stations at Epcot that night just as much!”

With tickets running up to $75 for special events like Mickey’s Not So Scary Halloween Party and Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party, the cost for these activities can be financially overwhelming. But money aside, lots of vacationers rave about how much fun they had at these parties, as you are purchasing extra time in the parks, with free sugar cookies, hot chocolate, and Halloween candy treats as an added bonus.

If you are paying for the experience, only you can determine what is best for your family. If a character breakfast “splurge” will cost upwards of $200 for a family of five, is it worth the expense for one meal?  If a Christmas or Halloween party will cost two visitors over $125 at a minimum, is it worth it?

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It pays to do your research for “events” at Disney. I’ve wanted to do the Tomorrowland Terrace Fireworks Party for years, but the price and only so-so reviews have kept me from following through once I managed to book a reservation. If you are going to splurge on events, make sure your bunch is ready, so you can feel like you got your money’s worth.

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Chrissy and Jason, “I would have gone to MVMCP when we were there. We were on a tight budget and decided to skip it, but now I wish we would have.”

Briget, “I would book another character breakfast or supper. We did a character breakfast on the last day we were there. It was so much fun!! Our kids really enjoyed spending time with the characters. Next time we do a supper and breakfast!”

You’ve heard of buyer’s remorse? Number five is his naughty cousin, non-buyers remorse. You get home from a Disney vacation, and with loads of time on your hands, you realize all the things you wish you had done on vacation but passed on. This is when you decide if paying for an event, despite the high cost, will be worth it on your next trip.

Our fans have some suggestions for your next splurge:

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Speaking of a splurge, if you have daughters, this is one “splurge” that rates high among our  Cheapskate Princess Facebook Fans, the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique. It’s pricey, but most parents say the experience was well worth the cost.

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why you should find quiet time at Disney World

Melina, We visited the Magic Kingdom during ‘A Night of Joy’, and it was my 36th birthday. Around 12:30 am, we were walking down the lane in Frontierland, when I just stopped. My husband and I just stood for about 30 seconds; no one was in sight. Not one person, not a cast member, not a guest. The lane was empty. It felt like we were the only two people in the park at that time. It is the most magical moment I could ever dream of having. I would try to make that happen each time I go to the MK.”

Disney is a crazy busy place, especially during holidays and times when kids are out of school. During these times in the parks, you will be surrounded by lots of crowds, music, parades, noise, and activity. This is certainly not a bad thing, but too much can result in overload for adults and children, most certainly young children. A mid-day break at your resort, visiting other resorts, or simply taking a nap can break up the day into more manageable pieces.

And of course, as Melina points out, things slow way down at closing time, unless you run out of the gates to stand in a transportation line. If you have the mental and physical strength to stay up late, Disney parks are beautiful at night, during the time most people head for transportation home. Stick around to shop or have a snack as the crowds thin out.

Cell phones, tablets and social media can add more craziness to an already frantic day, and here’s why you need less of that:

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do not over plan a Disney World vacation

Susan, “On our last morning, instead of just relaxing by the pool or hopping on a bus to visit a park or resort, I wanted the kids to experience the ferry to Magic Kingdom, because we did have time for a few rides and a little shopping. So, having driven to WDW, we drove to MK, missed our turn, backtracked and then attempted parking – ugh! Then, it took so long to get to the Magic Kingdom by ferry.  I wish we would have just taken the bus, stayed a few hours, and then left for home from the resort. Or visited another resort for breakfast or something. I didn’t ‘push’ anything the whole trip and regretted doing so on our last morning. It wasn’t worth the frustration to leave on a disappointing note.”

Over-planning at Disney is probably as common as Mickey Mouse hats. You pay all this money, so naturally you want to squeeze in every minute’s worth of fun. But this frequently just leads to frustration and exhaustion. You can only do so much before the meltdowns begin.

Remember, sometimes less is more.

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Susan, “Another thing we regretted doing was driving to WDW from central Missouri. 17 hours was NOT that enjoyable.”

I feel for you guys who have to travel for hours and hours to get to Orlando. Our family has a nine-hour drive one way including lots of stops, but nine is way short of 17 hours, or 30 hours. And for those of you who fly, the cost of that alone makes me cringe.

Weigh very carefully the money saved in a long drive versus the money paid to fly, and then decide what your group can handle.

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Rachel,  “We realized that taking more people does not mean you should stay longer. We had a gathering of nine people and stayed ten days. We were tired of each other after five or six days . When we just take immediate family (six), we tend to enjoy the trip for longer.”

Traveling with friends and family can be stressful. While it may seem like a great idea to spend 10 days with family, are you sure you can handle it day after day?

One thing to remember is that you do not have to spend every waking moment together. You can go to different parks and meet up for a meal.

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Ever talked to someone who had a terrible time at Disney World? The common theme I have found is they traveled at the “wrong” time of year, and even more specific, most traveled the week after Christmas. It is crazy crowded from Christmas to New Years, which is no surprise given how many people are off from school and work during this time.

You will have to decide if longer lines are what your family can handle, especially if you are traveling with small children.

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Sara, “If we could do our whole trip over again, we would. My husband ended up with the flu on the very first day at Disney, and on the third day my daughter ended up hospitalized with the flu, steep throat and double ear infections. It was MISERABLE!”

I still remember when I picked up some sort of nasty stomach bug at Disney, riding the monorail, praying I was not going to throw up on a car full of people. I spent 24 hours sleeping off that bug, literally missing the last full day of our vacation. I missed all those last moments –  the last ride, the last snack, the last everything. And then the other four members of my family got it once we got back at home, missing school and work.

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Skyler, “I would have gotten a dole whip when we were in Adventureland. I’ve been craving one since we left 2 weeks ago.”

I am probably the king of this do-over. I see so many things I want to buy to eat or wear that I just can’t afford to purchase them all. Occasionally something will really speak to me, like a t-shirt or a bracelet, and it’s about a 50/50 shot if I will see the item again. There have been times I wished I had bought ______(fill in the blank) right then, because days later, I couldn’t find it then, or I didn’t make it back to the resort or park like I wanted.

Disney is a huge place –  there are thousands of food and merchandising items. Sometimes, you have to trust your gut instinct and buy it then, because you may not have the opportunity to purchase it again.

And remember if you decide you just don’t want it or really can’t afford it, if you have your receipt and the item is in just-purchased condition,  you can return purchases to any gift shop, even if you didn’t purchase the item at that location. Now Dole Whips…you better get them right then!

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Leslie, MNSSHP. The pouring rain really put a damper on it, and we really didn’t do much of what we paid for. We did stay for the later parade though, and my Disney Daughter danced with the Creepa Crew, so it was salvaged, but I was so disappointed. High expectations!”

Your vacation will cost a ton of money, and some people have been waiting years to travel to Orlando. It’s natural for you to expect big things, but not CrAzY big things. You can’t expect perfection to a level that unfortunate mix-ups, cancelled plans, long lines wreck your day or wreck your trip. Things will go wrong, but you simply have to recover.

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If you have a Disney Do-over, let us know. It’s always interesting to hear what people would change about their vacations.

Thanks for stopping by, and we’ll see you planning your next vacation, weighing your options for that week after Christmas.

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  1. Lauren says:

    Love the list! I hate to see the bad comment about Tony’s, though. We loved it when we went. Good food, great service, awesome air-conditioned break from the park!

    • Christie says:

      I know. We had read and researched and reserved a place we thought the kids would like, (even watching the movie before we left so they’d know what the theming was about, but the meal was so bad I tried squeezing the lemon from my water over my entree to make it have a taste, and that was after I had to send the chicken back to get cooked all the way through. It was pretty miserable, especially since we’re foodies! We almost cancelled our reservations at the California Grill because of the dinner at Tony’s. SO glad we didn’t, but we really thought about it.

      • Lauren says:

        Isn’t it funny how we all prefer different things? 🙂 I have cousins that eat there every time because it’s there favorite in WDW! Our favorite turned out to be Tusker House at Animal Kingdom. We were surprised how much we liked it!

  2. Laura says:

    I couldn’t agree more! Especially with the last one. Sometimes we get so excited about eating at that restaurant or riding that ride or seeing that parade that we forget why we’re doing it in the first place. I can guarantee that at some point something you plan will be ruined by rain or tantrums or spilling soda down your shirt. You just have to remember that your vacation is for yourself and your loved ones and not for the specific ride or meal or souvenir. Be flexible and you’re much more likely to have a wonderful time.

  3. Sabrina says:

    We’ve been twice. First trip we were off site and had a rental vehicle, the kids both got in free (1yr and 2 yrs old) and we seperated often. We went during Star Wars Weekends for my husbands sake, and took one day off in the middle of our trip to do… nothing. It was perfect! That trip was fantastic, and we quickly discovered that taking the shuttle from our hotel was not worth it. So we took our rental instead, and sucked up the parking cost.

    The second trip we went on, my son got sick the day of the Christmas party (we booked in advance. Wish we wouldn’t have booked it at all because that day it rained all evening and it was miserable. We could have just bought the tickets at the resort when we wanted to go instead. The second parade was cancelled, we couldn’t find any of the characters, didn’t go on any rides because of my son’s sickness, and the only saving grace was the dance parties my daughter had so much fun with. We missed the fireworks show… it was a very disappointing day and I cried so much). However, staying on Disney property was SO worth it. And got the free dining plan, which took so much of the stress out of the planning. Next time we go, we will be making sure to only drink bottled water.

  4. Laura says:

    I wouldn’t do the Dining Plan for a 5 day stay (4 park days). We loved the restaurants we chose, but our whole time at the parks revolved around our dining reservations. I would consider it if we were there for a longer stay, but 4 days in the parks trying to schedule around meals takes some of the spontaneity from the vacation. The nice part was trying different restaurants in different resorts. But…anytime at Disney World is time well spent!

  5. Tami says:

    I loved reading this lol! We’ve been to WDW twice in the last few years and we definitely learned things on both visits. I do kind of agree with Laura above saying that with the dining plan, you’re constantly planning around your reservations. However, it’s also nice to get out of the crowds and sit down and enjoy your meal without having to look at prices, quietly calculating how much it’s going to cost you out of pocket to eat. The last two times, we always said we were going to rest mid-day since we were staying on site, but once we had reached our “rest time” it wouldn’t give us much time in the room considering how long it would have taken us to get to the room and back. As we are already planning our next trip, we are HANDS DOWN scheduling rest time in the room. My suggestion would be hit the parks at rope drop and stay til lunch, then go back and rest. Ride wait times are less come evening so eat dinner early and enjoy some rides or scope out a place for the evening shows. We were on a strict schedule the last visit because everyone wanted to see as much as we could so next time, we will take it more relaxed.

  6. Heather says:

    Take a picture of the SKU/tag of something you aren’t sure about buying. You can probably order it by phone after your vacation if you have non-buyer’s remorse.

  7. Krystal Hanes says:

    2 out of 4 of us got sick on our trip as well. My son started vomiting in Animal Kingdom on our 3rd park day, luckily it was a quick bug, but then my husband caught it on the 5th day. It was horrible. We had to fly home the next day, thankfully his was over quickly as well. Not fun after all the planning and hard work and money that goes into a trip to Disney and then you wind up sick. next time we re planning for a non flu season month and hoping for the best.

  8. Jennifer says:

    We always stay on-property and take advantage of the Disney transportation. Although it can be a hassle when the parks close and you are trying to cram into a bus with hundreds of other people, it definitely is worthwhile. Our family splits up if necessary: if someone is tired, just go back to the hotel and eveyone else can stay at the parks as long as they want.
    We’ve done the dining plan and not done the dining plan. For us, it was much cheaper to skip the dining plan and pay out-of-pocket. I reviewed menus and analyzed the cost of the dining plan versus approximate out-of-pocket meal cost and found the difference to be negligible. However, the reality was, we didn’t eat nearly as much or as often as we would have on the dining plan so actually saved quite a bit. Remember that once children are 10 years old, you have to buy an adult meal plan for them which didn’t seem to make sense since my 10 year old son was definitely not going to eat as much as my husband.
    A “disco nap” in the afternoon makes a huge difference. We usually hit the parks bright and early and try to return to the hotel around lunch time. We have lunch by the pool and chill for an hour or two. It makes it possible to hit the parks again after dinner to catch parades and fireworks.
    The Park Hopper option for us is a must. We consistently visit 2 parks per day: breakfast and rides in one park and dinner and fireworks in another. We don’t usually add the Waterpark option – if you choose a day to hit a Waterpark, just ask your concierge to add a 1-day pass to you tickets.
    Disney Springs is a good option for a 1st day “park”. That way you don’t have to purchase Magic Your Way tickets for your first day. You can visit the Lego store and other stores for Disney merchandise like matching t-shirts for the whole family! There are other activities like bowling or the movies and lots of great restaurants.

  9. brittany says:

    We will go with just OUR family. A couple weeks ago we tried to take our family (a pregnant mommy and soon to be 2 year old along with a fun ready to go hubby) and his 64 year old parents…. such a no go. Mommy and 2 year old needed a nap – along with the gparents that just needed to be at the resort. Who wound up being the most disappointed was my husband – who had the most wild of expectations of riding test track with his dad and taking his mom on the Dinosaur ride. We did have a brilliant evening at Hollywood Studios where we wound up in prime location for a Woody and Buzz visit along with the spectacular Star Wars Fireworks. But when we go again – it will be me (not pregnant), my husband and our two boys … only catering to ourselves!

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